Valentine’s Day is a chance to celebrate love, connection, and pleasure. But this year, I challenge you to go beyond the standard gifts and ignite something deeper.
Introducing the Ultimate Pleasure Journey: a curated guide designed to ignite desire. Because some pleasures can’t be wrapped in a box.
SET YOUR INTENTION
Begin with intention. Light a candle, breathe together, setting the vibe early can make all the difference. These picks help you and your partner tune in and turn an ordinary night into something memorable.
The Lover’s Journal 
Amazon, $58
Packed with fun prompts and challenges, this journal helps you and your partner hit pause, reflect, and connect on a deeper level. Perfect for sparking conversation and keeping the romance fresh. Bonus: it’s as thoughtful as it is fun.
Hatch Restore 3 Alarm Clock 
Hatch Sleep, $170
Rise and shine (or wine and dine) with this viral alarm clock. More than just an alarm, part mood light, part sound sanctuary. Ditch the phones, drift into intimacy, and wake up naturally entwined.
Love Struck Couples Magic Candle
House of Intuition, $24
Create an intimate atmosphere with the Love Struck candle, designed to enhance connection. Hand-poured in Los Angeles using sustainable palm wax and recyclable glass, it features a crystal inside for a meaningful touch. Burn it together to set the mood.
SET THE MOOD
Set the scene with ambient elements that engage the senses. From mood lighting to soothing scents, the right atmosphere can turn your evening into a sensory experience. These handpicked items will help you create the perfect vibe for connection, comfort, and a touch of magic.
Intimate Blanket
Common Confidential, $146
This worry-free, waterproof blanket is as chic as it is practical. With luxurious velvet and cozy fleece, it offers a worry-free, stylish way to enhance your intimate moments. Generously sized at 60×80 inches, it’s the perfect blend of style and practicality—ensuring your date night is clean, comfortable, and unforgettable.
*Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your first Common Confidential purchase.
Levitating Moon Lamp
Unusual Joy, $80
Bring a touch of the cosmos into your space with the Levitating Moon Lamp. This 3D-printed moon hovers and rotates mid-air, casting a warm, ambient glow. A sleek statement piece, it’s perfect for setting the mood or gifting a little lunar wonder.
Aero SM Diffuser
Aero, $148
Sleek, portable, and effortlessly stylish. Made from premium stone-like resin, the Aero SM blends cutting-edge, waterless technology with timeless design—delivering pure essential oil diffusion without heat or hassle. Supporting a small business has never looked (or smelled) so good.
FOREPLAY ESSENTIALS
Get the energy flowing with playful foreplay that builds anticipation. From teasing card games to tantalizing toys, these seductive additions set the mood.
Aphrodisiac Chocolate
Tabs, $30
Your body – and your partner – will be saying thank you with these yummy aphrodisiac chocolates. Tabs’ Play Sex Chocolate features three irresistible flavors: Dark Chocolate, Pink Cherry Rose Chocolate, and Not Milk Chocolate. Each bite is crafted to boost arousal and keep the focus right where it counts. Tabs have zero illicit substances, just pure, playful pleasure.
*Use code LOVE525212 for 15% off your order.
Magic Wand Mini
Shop With Emily, $99
This iconic essential is now travel-sized. The Magic Wand Mini delivers deep, rumbly vibrations perfect for a sexy, sensual warm-up. With three powerful settings, it’s ideal for teasing, massaging, and building anticipation. Compact yet mighty, it’s perfect for slow, teasing play and fits seamlessly into any bedroom routine. Ready to add a little magic to your play?
Quickies
The Adventure Challenge, $30
Quickies are playful challenges designed to spice up your date night in 30 minutes or less. Scratch off a card, pick your challenge, and let the fun begin. No prep, no hassle—just a quick way to connect and keep things exciting. Perfect for couples looking to break the routine and make date night feel new again.
Organic Cotton Teddy (For Her)
Fleur du Mal, $108
Breathable, soft, and effortlessly chic. This organic cotton teddy is crafted from lightweight certified organic cotton with flirty lace trim and an elasticized waist for the perfect fit. Its pull-on design and adjustable straps combine practicality with style.
Men’s 3-Pack Boxer Set (For Him)
Fleur du Mal, $128
Comfort meets classic style. Made from ultra-soft, breathable cotton, this boxer set offers all-day wearability. With a relaxed fit and timeless design, these boxers are perfect for lounging, layering, or gifting. Elevate your essentials with this chic, high-quality trio.
TEASE THE SENSES
Master the art of anticipation with these erotic essentials that heighten the senses. Designed to build tension and set the mood, these products get you both in the perfect headspace for foreplay. It’s about savoring every moment of the build-up before diving in.
CRAVE Icon Cuffs
Shop With Emily, $79
The CRAVE ICON Cuffs blend luxury with playfulness—wear them as a bracelet by day, or as a bedroom restraint when the mood strikes. Crafted from genuine leather and stainless steel, they’re as stylish as they are functional. Available in Tan & Gold, Black & Silver, and Black & Rose Gold.
Massage Butter
Common Confidential, $69
Common Confidential Massage Butter elevates your foreplay. With a smooth, long-lasting texture and nature-inspired ingredients, it’s perfect for everything from tantric rubs to full-body massages. Free from harsh chemicals, this silky butter lets you focus on the pleasure, not the friction—just apply generously and enjoy the experience.
*Use code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off your first Common Confidential purchase.
CBD-Infused Arousal Gel
Morgasm, $54
Make foreplay the main event. This ultra-slippery, water-based gel is 100% hypoallergenic, latex-safe, and toy-friendly, offering all-natural ingredients with dual-action benefits for both women and men. It enhances arousal, increases blood flow for stronger orgasms, and helps with sex-related discomfort. With 250 mg of organic Full-Spectrum CBD, it’s discreet, non-staining, and safe for all your intimate moments. Plus, it’s edible with a subtle sweet scent and taste – the perfect way to elevate your experience, no high included!
*Use code LOVE25 for up to 40% off at Morgasm
Je Joue Massage Candle
Shop With Emily, $30
This delectable massage candle is a luxurious way to explore temperature play. Made with nutrient-rich soy and essential oils, it melts into a warm, sensual massage oil that hydrates, softens, and leaves your skin lightly scented. Light it, let it melt, and either pour or drizzle the wax directly onto the skin for a soothing experience that relaxes, rejuvenates, and sets the mood.
CLIMAX TOGETHER
Let’s elevate the experience for both partners. From top-rated vibrators and prostate massagers to G-spot toys and intimate lubes, these essentials are designed to help you reach that perfect climax—together.
LELO Couple Play Bundle
LELO, $239
If climaxing together is your goal, the LELO Couple’s Bundle is your perfect match. The TIANI 3 remote-controlled couples’ massager, designed to be worn during sex for powerful internal and external vibrations, enhances intimacy with every movement. The TOR 2 couples’ ring offers a snug fit and intense vibrations, boosting pleasure for both partners. With LELO HEX condoms, a Personal Moisturizer, and the Oral Sex Balm to heighten sensation, this set is designed to elevate every intimate encounter.
*Use code EMILY20 at LELO.com for an extra 20% off!
We-Vibe Vector Prostate Massager
Shop With Emily, $149
Give the gift of a prostate orgasm this Valentine’s Day. This vibrating massager is designed for dual stimulation of the prostate and perineum. With synchronized vibrations, it intensifies pleasure, perfect for creating an unforgettable climax.
Playground Pillow Talk Rose & Cream Lube
Shop With Emily, $15
Savor every moment together with this fan-favorite lube. Pillow Talk’s silky smooth, water-based formula combines soothing vitamin E, hydrating hyaluronic acid, and bamboo extract for long-lasting slip that mimics your natural lubrication. With a soft wild rose and cream scent, it enhances intimacy while remaining clean, vegan, and eco-friendly.
Hera Flex Rabbit 
Je Joue, $103
Experience precision pleasure with the Je Joue Hera Flex Rabbit Vibrator, designed for simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Its flexible core adapts to your body, allowing for targeted pleasure and a more intense, personalized experience. With 5 intensity speeds, 7 patterns, and deep rumbly vibrations, it’s perfect for achieving that coveted blended orgasm.
*Buy now with 30% off using code EMILY30 at sexwithemily.com/hera.
THE AFTERGLOW
After the intensity, it’s time to relax and unwind. Focus on comfort with soothing oils, soft blankets, and cozy essentials that help you both settle into a calm, intimate moment.
Skyler Banded Long Robe (For Her)
Mason Grey, $108
For the ultimate in relaxation, slip into this oh-so-soft robe. With its banded design, it’s perfect for après-sex, post-bath lounging — keeping you cozy and carefree all day (or night) long.
Men’s Nest Slippers (For Him)
Bombas, $85
The ultimate aftercare essential. These ultra-cozy slippers offer cloud-like comfort with a durable design, perfect for padding around post-play or lounging in style. Plus, they’re Bombas, so you know they give back with every pair purchased. Warm toes, warm heart.
Bamboo Sheet Set
Cozy Earth, $230
Wrap yourself in luxury. Made from 100% premium viscose from bamboo, these sheets are as soft as they are breathable, and they only get better with every wash. With an oversized fit and gentle drape, you’ll love the comfort night after night.
*Save up to 25% off with Cozy Earth’s Valentine’s Day Sale.
Mood Maker Intimate Body + Massage Oil
Playground, $32
Meet your new favorite pleasure-enhancing body oil. Made with skin-loving botanicals like ashwagandha, sea buckthorn, and jojoba oil, it nourishes your skin while igniting the senses. Infused with vanilla, sandalwood, rose, and ylang ylang, this oil promotes connection and intimacy, whether you’re using it for a couples’ massage or a daily “I just orgasmed” glow.
Reflect & Connect
$0
Wrap up the night by simply being present with each other. Share thoughts, laugh, or just enjoy the quiet together. It’s all about keeping the connection flowing and feeling closer, no pressure.
BETTER THAN A BOX OF ROSES
Gift sets that say more than flowers ever could.
Le Wand Little Pleasures 6-Piece Set
Shop With Emily, $219
Pamper your partner with this sweet (and sexy) 6-piece gift set that is a total vibe. It includes two powerful clitoral vibes, plus a silicone ring to add extra zing to the experience. It’s the perfect balance of style, power, and playfulness.
In Lieu of Flowers Candle Set Trio
Literie Candle, $135
The Literie collection features three floral-inspired scents— peony + rose, sakura + vanilla, tulips + freesia)- all crafted from a vegan soy and coconut wax blend.
Couple’s Collection Set by Je Joue
Shop With Emily, $149
This V-day must-have is all about deepening shared pleasure. With the Mio Vibrating Cock Ring for extra stimulation during penetrative sex and the G-spot Bullet Vibrator for precise internal sensations, this set brings something special to your intimate moments.
LONG DISTANCE LOVERS
Stay connected, no matter the miles.
Ohmibod Panty Vibe
Shop With Emily, $129
This vibrating panty adds a subtle thrill with its discreet, wearable design. Equipped with three modes—manual, preset patterns, and sound-responsive—this vibe syncs to the music, offering a unique experience whether you’re out dancing or in long-distance play. Compact and quiet, it’s designed for private pleasure, no matter where you are.
CRAVE Vesper 2 
Shop With Emily, $165
The CRAVE Vesper 2 is a stylish, waterproof vibrator necklace designed for discreet pleasure, making it perfect for long-distance lovers. With four vibration patterns and a sleek stainless steel design, this piece allows you to send subtle, sexy sensations no matter the distance. Available in three luxe finishes, it’s a sensual reminder of your connection, wherever you are.
MAINTAIN THE MAGIC (ALL YEAR ROUND)
Make everyday Valentine’s Day.
Annual SmartSX Membership
Sex With Emily, $199
Give the gift of connection with an annual SmartSX membership. This isn’t just another subscription; it’s a year of expert insights, live workshops, and a community focused on real intimacy and pleasure. Perfect for anyone looking to deepen their connection, explore their desires, and keep things fresh all year long.
*Save 25% today on an annual membership.
Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ & Own Your Pleasure by Dr. Emily Morse
Shop With Emily, $32
Revitalize your relationship with this best-selling book. This guide is designed for couples looking to deepen their connection, communicate better, and discover new ways to enhance intimacy. From mastering orgasm techniques to exploring your unique desires, it’s the perfect resource to help you both own your pleasure together.
STAY WELL.. ALL YEAR LONG
Because self-care doesn’t take a holiday.
His & Hers Red Light Face Mask
HigherDOSE, $349 each
Glow together, literally. These futuristic face masks harness the power of red light therapy to boost collagen, reduce fine lines, and leave skin radiant. Perfect for a self-care session post-romp or just leveling up your skincare game as a couple. Because red light is the new candlelight.
V-Health Serum (For Her)
V-Health, $125 for 6 Application Starter Pack
Revitalize intimate health with V-Health Serum, using Nobel-winning technology to restore moisture, elasticity, and comfort down there. Perfect for menopause, postpartum, or just because, it helps reduce dryness and painful sex with zero hormones. Give your vagina the love it deserves—naturally and safely.
*Use code EMILY25 for 25% off sitewide on https://getvhealth.com/.
Daily Passion Mushroom Gummies
Supermush, $77.76
Sweet, strawberry-champagne bliss in gummy form. These vegan, non-GMO gummies are packed with science-backed superfood mushrooms to support mood, energy, and passion. With zero sugar and a delightful strawberry, apple, and caramel flavor, they’re as delicious as they are functional. Take two a day whenever the mood strikes—perfect for enhancing your day with a little extra spark. Bonus: they’re as arousing for your tastebuds as they are for your vibe.
Spicy Passion Latte
Kroma, $45
Warm, indulgent, and slightly spicy, this adaptogenic latte blends pleasure and wellness. With antioxidant-rich cacao, libido-boosting Maca, and mood-enhancing mushrooms like Reishi and Cordyceps. Energizing yet caffeine-free, it’s a sensual treat for any time of day.
*Use code SEXWITHEMILY20 for 20% off your order at Kroma.
