From swearing off penetrative sex to quitting playing games, Violet Benson shares how she creates the sex life that truly work for her.

Let’s begin in the most beginner-friendly way possible: by experimenting on yourself.

I help callers work through their fears around sex: “Am I peeing or squirting?” “Will my partner fall in love with the third in a threesome?”

It’s a “win-win” for everyone.

Author Elise Loehnen discusses the cultural forces that teach women to be desirable rather than desiring and shame themselves & other women.

Sex positions aren’t just fun to play with: they’re strategic.

It can be difficult to meet new people and cultivate romantic relationships. I help you solve the modern dating problems you’re running into.

Communication is a lubrication.

How do you actualize a fantasy with a partner who’s wary of it? From threesomes to golden showers, I take calls on this exact predicament.

From reverse cowgirl and the Kivin Method to shower sex, I share tips to make ambitious moves easier and classic sex positions more exciting.