Up Your 69 Game (& Other Oral Sex Tips)

Let’s 69! I share pointers to make 69ing hotter and more comfortable, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex.

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Double the O, Double the Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple Orgasms

So let’s get hedonistic, shall we? Here’s how to try blended orgasms, according to your genitals.

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How to Make a Mess: Squirting, Face Ejaculation & Golden Showers

Sex is inherently messy (just ask your bedsheets). But let’s talk about a different kind of mess: the one you do deliberately.

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Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells All

Today we turn the tables as Dr. Wednesday Martin asks ME about the first time I had legitimately good sex, my sexual turn-ons, and more.

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Best Of: How to Squirt & Find Your G-Spot w/ Deborah Sundahl

Every vulva owner can learn how to squirt. Deborah Sundahl reveals what female ejaculate is and how to find your G-Spot in the mirror.

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How to Train Your Vagina

Understanding your pelvic floor and the steps to achieve the top 3 sex goals of vulva owners: internal orgasms, squirting, and multiple orgasms.

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Non-Penetrative Orgasms w/ Violet Benson

From swearing off penetrative sex to quitting playing games, Violet Benson shares how she creates the sex life that truly work for her.

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5 Reasons to Add Anal Play to Your Masturbation Routine

Let’s begin in the most beginner-friendly way possible: by experimenting on yourself.

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Squirting Setbacks, Threesome Hangups & Other Sex Anxieties

I help callers work through their fears around sex: “Am I peeing or squirting?” “Will my partner fall in love with the third in a threesome?”

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Your Guide to Mutual Masturbation

It’s a “win-win” for everyone.

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