Ask Emily

Sex isn’t a button that we can automatically turn on and off. I look at the body’s response to sex, and help you figure out what to do when it shuts down.

Whether you’re trying to figure out if you feel the spark, or you’re nervous on a first date, I give you tips to put your best foot forward.

Confidence is an inside job, but here’s the good news. Once you generate it on your own terms, life – and sex – gets a whole lot easier.

To lots of folks, “foreplay” is shorthand for…hand stuff but it’s actually more about emotional intelligence than anything having to do with your fingers.

Everyone has that one need that they’re longing to satisfy…they just don’t know how to do it. Good news: I’m here to help you take that vital next step.

When it comes to your most pressing sex questions, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! I’m here to answer your top 5 questions.

How do you orgasm when you don’t know how? Or have sex for the first time, when you’re a virgin? How do you ease into an open relationship or threesome?

Today’s hotline calls episode takes a look at mismatched sex drives, pleasure with a micropenis, and a case of sexsomnia (aka having sex in your sleep).

I’m breaking down everything you need to know about sex in college, what I wish I knew before my first year, and YOUR hottest college hookup stories.

I answer calls about how to have the sex what you want, how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, and so much more.