In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily explores praise kink—the trending phenomenon where sexual arousal comes from receiving verbal affirmation and approval during intimacy. She breaks down how this differs from simply enjoying compliments and connects to deeper psychological needs for feeling worshipped, special, or desired.
The episode introduces core erotic desires, the fundamental feelings we seek during sex that stem from our experiences and shape what turns us on. Whether involving feeling powerful, nurtured, transgressive, or humiliated, understanding these desires is crucial for sexual satisfaction.
Through listener questions, Emily tackles complex dynamics: a man missing the intense connection with a kinky ex despite his fiancé’s willingness to participate, a woman who shut down after an embarrassing bondage moment, and someone questioning fantasies about their partner with others.
She normalizes these experiences while offering practical communication strategies, including her “Yes, No, Maybe?” checklist for exploring new sexual territory with partners, and emphasizing that sexual fantasies and messy moments are normal parts of intimacy.
Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
1:46 – Understanding Kinks vs Conventional Sex
5:14 – Praise Kink and Submissive Energy in the Bedroom
7:04 – How Praise Kink Helps with Body Image Issues
9:09 – Core Erotic Desires: What Really Turns You On
11:48 – Different Types of Core Desires (Worship, Humiliation, Power)
15:07 – Mining Your Fantasies to Discover Your Desires
17:07 – How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Fantasies
19:47 – Listener Question: Missing Kinky Ex vs Current Partner
24:42 – Listener Question: Embarrassing Moment Killed the Kink
30:34 – Listener Question: Is My Cuckolding Fantasy Healthy?
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