On Today’s live podcast recording from April 9, 2026, I answer your real questions about masturbation, insecurity, kink, communication, and how to improve your sex life with curiosity and openness. We talk about why masturbation is a healthy part of a thriving relationship, how to overcome insecurities about sexual experience, and the importance of communication and exploration.
I also dive into how to bring solo techniques into partnered sex, why self-consciousness during intimacy can kill arousal, and how to keep desire alive through changes in life stages. This episode is all about prioritizing pleasure, understanding your body, and learning to feel more confident in your sexuality. No matter your experience, there’s always room to grow and enjoy better, more fulfilling sex.
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ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
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Chapters:
0:00 Welcome to Sex with Emily
2:14 Masturbation in Relationships Isn’t Cheating
5:44 Kinks, Bondage & Presence
7:25 Inexperienced in Bed & Becoming a Better Lover
9:57 Solo Orgasms, Porn, & Partnered Sex Explained
14:13 Body Confidence During Sex
18:28 Emily’s New Book
19:40 Can Lesbians Enjoy Anal Pleasure?
22:06 Perimenopause & Low Libido
23:47 Why Some People Can Only Orgasm Alone
26:17 How to Be an Ethical “F-Boy”
29:14 Trouble Finishing
