Do you want a little more kink in your life, but aren’t sure how to get started? If so…you’ll definitely want to tune into my interview with professional dominatrix & kink expert, Mistress Justine Cross. We discuss the myths and basics of BDSM starting with what the hell it even means (bondage, discipline, domination, submission and masochism). We show you how to begin exploring your kinks even if you are brand new to the game and we discuss some of the most common fantasies.
We also answer your questions about: techniques for restraining your partner (fun!), the importance of communicating your fantasies, and how to explore dom/sub dynamics.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- How to explore BDSM, from restraint play to introducing kinks.
- The biggest myths about BDSM and why it’s not all whips and chains.
- Simple ways to master consent, boundaries, and better communication.
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