It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust – the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure. When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?
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Resources:
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- “The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory
- “Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory
- Polyamory in BLACK!
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