I know what you’re thinking. Missionary? Really? But hear me out, because I genuinely believe missionary might be the most underrated position in existence, and the reason most people are bored by it has nothing to do with the position itself. It has everything to do with what they’re not doing in it.
In this episode, I’m breaking down every missionary myth, sharing the techniques that actually work for clitoral stimulation during penetration, and answering your listener’s questions on everything from G-spot orgasms to asking your partner to bend you over the kitchen table.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• Why the porn version of penetrative sex works for only about 30% of vulva owners and what the rest of us actually need to get there, including the CAT technique that makes missionary the best position for clitoral stimulation
• How to tell your partner you want them to dominate you, talk dirty, and bring more intensity to sex without making them feel like they’ve been doing it wrong this whole time
• Why incorporating a vibrator into partnered sex is one of the best things you can do for your sex life, and how to ask for it even if you’re a people pleaser who’s spent years putting everyone else’s comfort before your own pleasure
Don’t miss a video! Subscribe NOW:
https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial?sub_confirmation=1
ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.
CONNECT:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/
X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily
WANT MORE?
Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to https://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!
Chapters:
0:00 – Intro
1:03 – What’s Actually Great About Missionary (That Most People Miss)
5:26 – Dispelling the Myth That Missionary Is Boring
8:21 – The CAT Technique: Best Missionary Position for Clitoral Stimulation
9:29 – Listener Question: Mental Block Around Trying New Positions
13:15 – Dispelling the Myth That Missionary Can’t Be Kinky
13:28 – Listener Question: How to Ask Your Partner to Be More Dominant
18:27 – Dispelling the Myth That Vulva Owners Can’t Orgasm in Missionary
19:02 – Listener Question: Clitoral vs. Penetrative Orgasms & the G-Spot Explained
23:32 – Listener Question: How to Use a Vibrator During Missionary Without the Bulk
26:06 – A Note to People Pleasers: Your Pleasure Matters Too
