We all know moms are the ultimate multitaskers. They’re the CEO of the household, the emotional anchor, and the person who always makes sure everyone else’s needs are met before their own.
But here’s the thing, Moms: You cannot pour from an empty cup.
This Mother’s Day, I want you to shift the narrative. It’s not just about a bouquet of flowers (though those are lovely), it’s about Radical Self-Care. I’m talking about the kind of wellness that goes beyond a face mask — the kind that prioritizes your pelvic health, your sleep, and yes, your pleasure. Because at the end of the day, pleasure is wellness.
Whether you’re shopping for yourself (highly recommend!), your own mom, or a mother figure in your life, I’ve curated a list of the absolute best gifts to help anyone reconnect with her body and feel her best.
THE GOLD STANDARD OF RELAXATION
Magic Wand Waterproof
If there is one item that belongs on every woman’s nightstand (or by the tub), it’s the Magic Wand Waterproof. While it’s one of the world’s most powerful vibrators, I want to let you in on a little secret: It’s also the ultimate recovery tool.
Think of it like a premium massage gun. If you’re feeling tension in your neck, shoulders, or lower back after a long day, the rumbly, deep vibrations of the Magic Wand are unparalleled for muscle relaxation. Because it’s waterproof, it’s the perfect companion for a nice relaxing bath.
Why We Love It: It’s one of the highest quality massagers on the market (and personally, my all-time fave). It’s rechargeable, cordless, and fully submersible. Gifting this to a mom is gifting her the power to de-stress her entire body.
Shop the Magic Wand Waterproof
THE “DO NOT DISTURB” BATH RITUAL
Sometimes the best gift for a mother is 30 minutes of uninterrupted peace and a locked door. Here’s how to turn a simple bath into a full-blown spa experience:
STEP 1: SET THE SCENE. Start by lighting the Dame Massage Oil Candle. Let it burn while the bath fills to fill the room with a calming scent and melt the wax into a warm, skin-safe oil. Prop up the The Luxury Bamboo Bath Tray to hold your book, your glass of wine, or your phone (for listening to the Sex With Emily podcast, obviously).
Shop Dame Massage Oil Candle
Shop The Luxury Bamboo Bath Tray
STEP 2: THE WARM-UP. Before stepping into the tub, apply the Morgasm Warming Massage & Body Oil to the neck or lower back. It creates a gentle warming sensation that preps the muscles for relaxation. Then, use your Magic Wand Waterproof over the oil to work out any stubborn knots.
Shop the Morgasm Warming Massage & Body Oil (NEW!)
Shop the Magic Wand Waterproof
STEP 3: THE SOAK. Drop in Organic & Natural Bath Bombs to soften the water with essential oils and cocoa butter. This is the time for total silence. For a little extra hydration “down there,” use a few pumps of Playground Love Sesh Unscented Lubricant for a scent-free silky slip, with soothing vitamin E, hyaluronic acid, & bamboo extract.
Shop the Organic & Natural Bath Bombs
Shop the Playground Love Sesh Unscented Lubricant
STEP 4: THE FINISHING TOUCH. Remember that candle you lit at the beginning? The wax has now transformed into a decadent, warm massage oil. Once out of the bath, gently pour it onto the skin for a deep, moisturizing finish that feels like a professional spa treatment.
THE “KEGEL THRONE”
BTL EMSELLA CHAIR
Pelvic floor health is so important. After childbirth or during menopause, many women experience a weakened pelvic floor, which can lead to “laughter leaks” or decreased sensation during sex. Luckily, there are ways to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles.
Enter the BTL Emsella. Affectionately known as the “Kegel Throne,” this non-invasive treatment allows you to sit fully clothed while high-intensity focused electromagnetic (HIFEM) technology triggers thousands of pelvic floor muscle contractions.
Who It’s For: Any mom who wants to regain her confidence, improve bladder control, and heighten her sexual response. It’s a literal game-changer for your “down there” fitness.
Learn More about the BTL Emsella
THE WOMAN’S HEALTH ESSENTIALS
Antevorta At Home Bundle
Intimate care is a key part of a daily wellness routine. The Antevorta At Home Bundle offers luxurious, pH-balanced washes and sprays rooted in Traditional Chinese Medicine. These products are perfect for helping women maintain a sense of freshness and comfort, especially for those managing dryness or sensitivity.
Shop Antevorta At Home Bundle (NEW!)
Womaness Perimenopause Skin Savers Kit
Hormonal shifts show up on the skin first. The Womaness Perimenopause Skin Savers Kit is high-performance skincare specifically designed for the hydration and elasticity needs of women in their 40s and beyond, helping them feel glowing and confident.
Shop the Womaness Perimenopause Skin Savers Kit
To The Moms:
This year, give yourself permission to want what you want. Whether it’s a high-tech pelvic treatment or a legendary wand for “neck tension,” you deserve to feel vibrant, relaxed, and satisfied.
Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there (including the dog moms, like me)! You deserve to be taken care of.
Check out the Mother’s Day Collection on Shop Sex With Emily.
