How do you take a classic sex position and make it kinky? On today’s show, I’m telling you exactly how. Inspired by the positions chapter in Smart Sex, I’m talking through two specific positions that bring the kink – and another classic that you can spice up with a little power play.
First, I’m looking at Cowgirl/Cowboy and talking through its pros, cons, and evolutions to introduce kinky dynamics. Next, I’m talking Doggy Style (or as I like to call it: Rear Entry) and breaking down its inherent kink dynamics and ideas to make it even more exciting. Finally, we’re looking at Missionary, which I think we can all agree needs a kinky rebrand. I’ll give you ideas to make it more surprising and sexy.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- How to turn classic sex positions into kinky, pleasure-boosting experiences.
- Why even small tweaks—like tempo and control—can make you kinkier than you think.
- The secret to better orgasms in any position (hint: clitoral stimulation is key).
Show Notes:
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