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September 22, 2023

Best Of: Orgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required)

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So many of us follow a sex script that’s been handed to us. But is that script actually serving you? In this popular Best Of episode, I give you permission to let your favorite sexual behaviors lead the way, with tons of spicy ideas to play with. Sex isn’t just about P-in-V (penis in vagina) penetration. Yet, that’s what we often mean by “having sex.” Listen – penetration is great! But I have ideas for mutual masturbation, sensual massage, hand play, elevated oral and so much more. Play this episode, make a list of your favorites, then tailor your next sex session around your authentic desires.

 

Show Notes:

Recent SWE Articles:

  • The Best Sex Toys According To Your Zodiac Sign
  • Low-Lift Pleasure Hacks: 5 Everyday Items That Elevate Your Sex
  • The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette
  • 5 Ways To Do It Doggy Style
  • 5 Hot, Consensual Ways to Practice Voyeurism

If You Liked This, You’ll LOVE This:

  • Article: 4 Ways to Close the Orgasm Gap
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  • Article: 6 Secrets to Have the Best Oral Sex of Your Life
  • Podcast: Up Your 69 Game (& Other Oral Sex Tips)
  • Article: 6 Essential Sex Toy Hacks
  • Podcast: How to Use Toys During Sex
  • Article: 5 Reasons to Add Anal Play to Your Masturbation Routine
  • Podcast: Butt First, Try Solo Anal

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